Friday, August 19, 2016

5 WAYS TO DRIVE OUT DISCOURAGEMENT | A POSITIVE APPROACH








"Therefore encourage

one another and

build each other up."

(I Thessalonians 5:11)








You don't have to look farther than the 5 o' clock news to become depressed. Senseless shootings, political unrest, threats of war, natural disasters. The list goes on and on.

Discouragement can hang over us like an ominous cloud. It touches each of our lives through financial strain, unexpected illness, job stress, or relational conflict.

Writers face times of discouragement when our careers don't take off like we hope, or we face writer's block or other obligations pull us away from our time to write. 

So what can we do to counteract this onslaught of discouragements? Here are 5 ways I've found that help pull me out of the doldrums.

Seek Out Positive People - When we're discouraged, it's so tempting to just hibernate in our own little corner of the world and not want to interact. But doing so, breeds discontent. Instead, we need to saturate ourselves with positive people who'll do their utmost to encourage us. If you're looking to expel your negative outlook, find someone with an uplifting attitude to help send your negativity reeling!

Treat Yourself - Sometimes we just need a breather, something that refreshes us and can get us back on track. When you're at your wit's end, take time out to do an activity you enjoy. It can be something as simple as going out for ice cream with your family or friends, taking a trip back in time thumbing through old photo albums, or sprawling in a lawn chair in your back yard with a good book. A bit of relaxation can go a long way!

Give of Yourself to Others - Nothing takes our minds off our own troubles than doing something nice for someone else. Do you have an elderly neighbor who'd be blessed by a visit? Is there someone who could benefit from a RAK (Random Act of Kindness)? There are myriad of ways you can give of yourself to others. (see my blog: Making the World a Better Place One Kindness at a Time). Reach out and touch someone's life, and in the process, you'll find your own cares lifting.

Take a Prayer Walk - What's a prayer walk? It's a walk where you commune not only with nature, but with God. While exercising your body, you exercise your spirit as well. Find a place that inspires you and drink in its beauty. (Sorry, city-dwellers. You'll have to search out a park or lawn.) Begin by thanking God for the richness of His creation. Soon you'll find yourself pouring out your heart to Him. And as the prayers go up, the burdens rise with them.

Just Keep Going! - Some days we just want to call it quits. Nothing goes right, and we feel like a hamster spinning his wheel. That's when we most need to rely on the Lord's strength to carry us through. Faith is believing what we can't see. We don't know what the next day will bring, but we do have the promise, that if we're Christians, the Lord's Spirit is within us and will guide us where we need to be. When we can't see what's ahead, we can trust God to gently nudge us in the right direction.

Do you have an idea you'd like to share that helps pull you from the pit of discouragement? I'd love to hear it.



Friday, August 5, 2016

LIFTING OUR EYES ABOVE OUR CIRCUMSTANCES by Guest Blogger Angela Meyer




 “I lift up my eyes to the mountains— where does my help come from? My help comes from the LORD, the Maker of heaven and earth.”

(Psalm 121:1-2)




The first time I saw a windmill farm, I was visiting my cousin in California. From a distance, they seem quite small, tame even, yet they are huge. I read an article about a Benedictine monk enjoying some sun and solitude on top of a windmill situated on his abbey’s school grounds. Though not the purpose of the machines, it fit the bill for this man. In the old west, settlers erected windmills to ensure clean water. Today, they generate energy. In the old west, settlers erected windmills to ensure clean water.

There are lots of things I don’t understand about the modern windmill and how it works, but two facts I know. The windmill has to stand higher than any obstacles that would interfere with the blades catching the wind and the windmill must face directly into the wind.

With these two factors in place (and all those other workings I don’t understand), the windmill pumps water and generates power.

The tendency of man is to attempt to supply his own need. All in his own effort. In a manner of speaking, turning the blades of his windmill to pump his own water, turn his own mill wheel, and generate his own energy.

But God has a different plan.

When we lift our eyes above the obstacles and face directly the One who is in control, HE will provide what quenches our (spiritual) thirst, satisfies our deepest (spiritual) hunger and fill us with the power to live life to His glory.

They busyness of our days can distract us from looking to Him. I long for routine for spiritual disciplines, but any schedule I set up for myself seems to be ruined by interruptions. I have found two things to be helpful to stay connected to God.

1.When I establish spiritual discipline routines based on events rather than time, I am more likely to attend to them. For example, instead of attempting my Bible reading at a certain time of the morning, as soon as everyone is out the door to work and school, before I sit down to write, I make time to be with God.

2.On those days when life catches me off guard (oversleeping, sick child, power is out, etc.) I try to have a few minutes of MITs. That’s what my pastor’s wife calls Most Important Things. Those disciplines I will get done no matter what. For example, copy down one verse to carry with me and think about throughout the day, say a prayer of surrender (and plea for help) for the day and a sing a song of worship.

What actions do you take to be sure you are facing directly the One who is in control?



Angela D. Meyer, author of The Applewood Hill Series, lives in NE with her husband of 24 years and their high school age daughter. Their son serves our country in the Marines. Angela enjoys hanging out with her family, reading, connecting with friends and encouraging women to grow in their faith. One of her dream spots to vacation is next to the ocean and someday she wants to ride in a hot air balloon.




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Joanna, full of bitterness over the past, can no longer ignore the growing storm inside her and is bent on self-destruction as she seeks to ease her pain. But the refuge she seeks is always out of her reach.

Her brother Blake must choose between what has always been safe and what he has always wanted. One mistake after another leads him down a dangerous path.

The one for all, all for one sibling bond can’t help them now. They are both determined to hang onto their anger, never forgetting. Never forgiving. They see no reason to trust God.

After so many years of turmoil, will the Hannigan siblings find refuge in the God who loves them? Or will they get lost along the way?

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While you’re waiting, pick up the first book in the series, Where Hope Starts, at Amazon 


Friday, July 29, 2016

TRUSTING GOD WHEN TROUBLES RAIN DOWN






"I will send down
showers in season;
there will be
showers of blessing."

(Ezekiel 34:26)









A farmer’s life has its definite challenges. As August nears, there’s still mowing around fields to be done, repairs to make, a combine to ready, and harvest is fast approaching. Generous amounts of rain this summer have forced us from the fields periodically. And yet, we count ourselves blessed, considering the drought out west and the floods in other areas of the country.


As farmers, we continually watch the sky and keep tabs on chances of rain and rainfall amounts. Too little moisture in the soil causes young plants to shrivel and die. But too much rain will stunt the crops and turn them yellow.


It seems rain can come as both a blessing and a curse. If it falls gently and at the right time, it nurtures growth and vitality. Yet, if it pours down heavy and harsh when it isn't needed, it brings destruction and ruin.


We all have rain that pours into our lives in the form of trials and troubles. At times these difficulties spur growth in our lives and cause us to deepen our relationship with Christ. Other times, adverse circumstances threaten to pull us away from God. It’s up to us how we respond. 


Our troubles vary. Some struggle with relationships, others finances, illness, or tragedy. But we all have them. The important thing is what we do with them. Do we allow them to get the better of us, or do we rise above them by depending on the Lord to help us through?


Scripture says our lives are like a mist or vapor, here today, gone tomorrow. (James 4:14) That being the case, we need to make each day count for Christ by letting the rain that falls produce blessing in our lives. When the storms of life blow harsh, call out to Jesus, the anchor of our souls. He’ll always be there to lift us up and pull us through.


What struggles have drawn you closer to the Lord? I'd love to hear your story.




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Friday, May 20, 2016

COUNTED WITH THE STARS | Interview with Author Connilyn Cossette


I’m so thrilled and honored to have Connilyn Cossette join us for a candid interview about her amazing journey to publication. I connected with Connilyn in many aspects and hope you are blessed by hearing her story as well. 

 
Thanks for joining us today, Connilyn! Could you start by telling us a bit about yourself and when you discovered you wanted to write novels?

Although it took me until I was nearly 35 before I actually began to write my first novel, it has been a long-held dream of mine. When I was thirteen years old I read Gone with the Wind. I read the entire book, in one day, when I was home sick from school. I still remember the sun coming up and the birds welcoming the dawn as I turned that last page. Gone with the Wind awakened my curiosity for history, as well as a passion for historical fiction. In fact, I was so inspired that when I found out Margaret Mitchell had died before writing the sequel, I pulled notebook paper out of my Trapper-Keeper (which dates me), uncapped a green pen, and started writing it for her. I can still see that first scene in my mind—Scarlett sitting on the porch at Tara with her head in Mammy’s lap, bemoaning the loss of Rhett. Although it took many more years and quite a few detours before I realized my dream of becoming an author, I consider that first page (which I dearly wish I still had) the beginning of my writing career.

How long did it take to complete your first novel?

I would say from start to finish about five years, give or take. There was a long time when I put it aside, thinking no one would every want to read my scribblings, but the Lord wouldn’t leave me alone about it and it became a matter of disobedience if I didn’t write. I was also spending this time learning how to write, so it took much longer than it does now.

Tell us about your debut novel, Counted with the Stars? What inspired it?

Counted with the Stars was inspired by a study I was doing on my own into Exodus and the roots of my faith. I ran across the verse in Exodus 12:38 that said “a mixed multitude went up with them.” I thought to myself—who were these people that went with the Hebrews on the Exodus? I wondered whether some of them might be Egyptian and what would have inspired them to follow an invisible God into the wilderness when all they had ever known were the gods of Egypt? Kiya’s story began as a product of my own curiosity about the motivations by those we would call “Gentiles” journeying with the Hebrews.

Intriguing! Why did you choose to write Biblical fiction?

I grew up reading some wonderful and inspiring Biblical fiction but it was not a conscious decision to write in this genre. Kiya’s story simply came out of my own personal study into Exodus and the foundations of my faith in the Hebrew Messiah. As I began to dig into the historical and cultural settings of the Exodus story, I found myself wondering what would make an Egyptian chose to go with the Hebrews. Kiya’s story began with an image in my mind of an Egyptian woman standing on the eastern bank of the Jordan River, waiting to enter the Promised Land. Kiya would not leave me alone until I told the story of how she turned away from the gods of Egypt to follow Yahweh to that place.

You’re a home-schooling mother of two, with a husband whose job keeps him away from home much of the time. With young children in the household, how do you carve out enough time to write full-length novels?

It has been a learning process over the past few years, and I am still working to perfect this balance. My kids are at the ages now where they are more independent in much of their work, so we have a two hour “together” time where we discuss history, read books together and work on any other subjects that require Mom directly teaching, and then they are free to finish their independent work on their own schedules. “The faster you finish the more playtime you have” is a common phrase during our school time. This affords me time during the day to work on the business aspect of my writing career, along with blogs and interviews. But I always write at night. I have attempted to flip on my creative switch during the day, but it just doesn’t work, I am a writer who really needs silence to work best and I have always been a night owl. So as soon as the kids are in bed, I am in my closet/office writing away in happy solitude. I write between 9:30-2am most nights. And yes, this means we don’t start school until 10am, when the “Mombie” (as the kids call me) is finally vertical, and caffeinated, but it works for us.

That’s using your creative time wisely! Can you share a bit about your work in progress and what we can expect to see from you in the future?

The next book in the Out from Egypt series is Shadow of the Storm, which is a continuation of the Exodus journey, but from the point of view of Kiya’s Hebrew friend Shira. As I wrote Counted with the Stars. Shira became one of my favorite characters and I was eager to discover more about her, and her journey in the wilderness. Shira will be forced to deal with the wounds of her past and take steps toward an uncertain future, while learning about who she is and who God created her to be. The third book in the series, Wings of the Wind, brings us forward in time to the year before the Hebrews enter the Promised Land. This book is from the point of view of Alanah, a Canaanite woman, who is determined to avenge the family killed by the Hebrew invaders by stepping onto the battlefield herself. When she is captured by a Hebrew warrior and her deepest fears become real, Yahweh will reveal himself and his plan for her life in a mighty way—a way that will affect not only the Hebrew conquest of the Promised Land, but the very bloodline of the coming Messiah. I hope to continue writing stories that give readers a fresh perspective on the Word of God and display God’s timeless from, from Genesis to Revelation.

They all sound wonderful! What advice would you give to those of us who are aspiring writers, but not yet published?

I would say my best advice is to not get too bound up in “rules”. There are so many wonderful, helpful tips and classes and craft books out there that guided me and continue to help me hone my skills. But there were times when I found myself paralyzed by what I should or shouldn’t do, to the point that it stifled my creativity a great deal. I think the trick is to study the craft, use the techniques that work best for your learning/writing style and then just write what brings you joy. And along those lines, don’t get bound up in comparing your writing to anyone else’s, only you can write the story from your heart. Write it, give it to the Lord, and let Him do with it what He will.

Great advice! Thanks for sharing your story, Connilyn. May the Lord continue to bless your writing career.




Counted with the Stars - Releasing April 2016 


Shadow of the Storm - Releasing October 2016
 
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